Cancer no match for couple

Posted 11/7/19

By Cindy Gladden Record Staff Writer Lonnie and Joyce Hollaway know what it’s like to be given the life-changing diagnosis of cancer, fight through it, then continue to battle cancer by raising …

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Cancer no match for couple

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Record Staff WriterLonnie and Joyce Hollaway know what it’s like to be given the life-changing diagnosis of cancer, fight through it, then continue to battle cancer by raising money for research.As Relay For Life team captains for the “Inspirations,” the Hollaways encourage all cancer survivors, patients and caregivers to attend the upcoming event to be held Saturday, Sept. 26, from 1-11 p.m. at Black Hawk Middle School in Warrenton.“Your life priorities change when you get the diagnosis,” said Joyce, who was diagnosed with uterine cancer in 2000. “It was obviously very scary, but I wasn’t panicked.”Breast and colon cancer had marked her family before, but she wasn’t thinking this was the end of her life. Taking comfort in advances in cancer treatments, Joyce endured surgery and chemotherapy to defeat the disease.Just when the couple felt comfortable retiring and enjoying trail riding with their quarter horses, Lonnie was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2009.“My first thought was to fix it and move on with our lives,” he said. “I was uneasy, but it didn’t scare me.”Because of their experiences with cancer, the Hollaways joined the Warrenton-based support group, The Inspirations. Meeting the third Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. at Fellowship Baptist Church, The Inspirations provides continued support to cancer patients, caregivers and survivors.“We don’t just go for us,” said Lonnie about the meetings. “We go to support others, to offer hope to first-timers.”Joyce said an incredibly hard thing to hear from cancer survivors is that “the cancer is back.”“It’s something you don’t want to hear because it could happen to you,” she said. “We don’t want to have a pity party at our meetings. We do a lot of praying there.”The Inspirations will have a booth at the Relay For Life selling silent auction items, roast beef sandwiches and bratwurst. Visitors also can play the pie in the face game for $1 a throw at the group’s booth.The Hollaways say that cancer research is working. They encourage patients to have a positive attitude and depend on their faith to help get them through the challenge. Joyce encourages people to listen to their bodies and recognize when something doesn’t seem right.“When we were sick our whole church community was praying for us,” said Joyce. “Faith can be a common denominator in fighting cancer.”The most inspirational moment at the Relay For Life for the Hollaways is the survivor lap/role call when each person comes forward and tells how many years they have survived cancer. This year’s survivor lap will take place at 6:30 p.m.“I’ll see friends that I didn’t even know had cancer,” said Lonnie.“We love the luminarias,” said Joyce. “They symbolize hope and courage.”Joyce said her advice to those fighting cancer would be to ask for support from family members and friends.“Don’t shut yourself away from people who want to help,” she said. “Many times they just don’t know how.”

Joyce and Lonnie Hollaway, of Warrenton, have both survived bouts with cancer and have turned their focus to raising money to fund research to find a cure. Cindy Gladden photo.


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